Calena Cox blog

I do plan on going to college after I graduate high school. I want to go to college so it will help me succeed with a career so I don’t fail in life. Having a great career will make me happy and I hopefully will be able to become a family. All of that leads up because of college. I want to go to college to studying dramatic arts and becoming an actress then hopefully become famous and people’s idol. College can make a better chance of being on TV and getting noticed because I will have experience. So going to college is what I want to do when I graduate.

Currently in my life I have a lot of important relationships. Everyone is very important and it is hard but at this moment if I had to choose one it would be with my sister Katelin. We have always been close our whole life and lately she has had a different unexpected time going on and it would really kill me if we weren’t the same anymore. I consider her my actual best friend because i trust her more than anyone ever. I hang with her more than anyone else and she understands me more than most people. I love my sister with all my heart and our relationship is one of the most important one I have.

The class I enjoy the most is probably choir. Choir is a really good class to take if you love to sing. You don’t have to be the best but the more you focus in the class your voice is trained to sing better than before. You can really express things without being judged. The class is like a safe place, everyone is excepted for who they are. I also enjoy the class because there is no exams. We don’t have to stress about tests because we just sing. We also have never done book work or homework. Choir is just a pure class and you’re not forced to take it so you choose that class for your enjoyment.

I was raised different than how most boys are. Usually girls are raised differently. We are made to act more mature earlier than guys, they normally never do become mature though. We have the same ways to act like with manners but guys don’t follow through with it. Girls are expected to be more clean and neat. But girls don’t have to be raised differently because you can be whoever you want to be. Girls have to grow up because puberty is  a  big effect on how we act but guys still act the same. You might still be the same person but you will change a lot. That is my opinion.

I can easily get worried about things but about stupid things sometimes. The thing that worries me the most is being alone, I am an independent person and I always have been but I hate knowing I don’t have anyone to go to. I’m never a sad alone person but people can have their days and need people. Something else that does worries me is not making people happy. There are a lot of people in my life and if I don’t reach their expectations I get upset. I do try a lot to be myself and make others happy. Those are the two things that worry me the most.

Yes teenagers can experience true and lasting love in my opinion. I know a couple stories of true love that started when they were kids. Not in movies but in real life. Also the question is a very opinionated question because the person can think a teenager’s age can differ between people. I feel that it’s easy to connect with someone and end up loving them. You might not think you love them at first but something will make you realize it. True love is hard to find but it happens and can happen at any age. So yes I do believe teenagers can find true and lasting love.

I don’t believe arranged marriages would work in today society because no one gets along anymore. People can barely work together, imagine getting told you have to marry someone that you could hate. Most kids don’t like their parents taste in clothes or interests or really anything so I highly doubt they would have good interests in people. The person could be really fake towards them and treat you horrible who knows. Your parents and their parents could pair you up for only money like how they would in the older days. You can’t force love so arranged marriages would most likely not make anyone happy in my opinion.

Yes I do believe in love at first sight. It most likely won’t happen to everyone but it does happen to a lot of couples. Looking at someone for the very first time and just falling in love is amazing, it might have to do with looks but that’s not a bad thing to be in love with someone who is attractive. The love at first sight I always remind myself of is my great grandparents, they met one day and instantly fell in love with each other. My great grandma wanted him she illegally joined the Military just to do be with him and even though she got caught they ended up together and were married well over 50 years and then he passed away. My great grandma knows she will never love someone as much as she did for him.

Yes my friends have been in a feud and in the end none of us were friends. One girl got really mad at the other girl and I didn’t know what to do without turning on my other friend. They thought I was picking sides, which that made them talk about me behind my back which really sucked but I could do better than them anyways. They were mean but I ignored that. When they fought I just kind of sat there clueless and once they stopped being friends I was forced to choose one so I left them both because it was annoying. That’s what happened with the feud I wasn’t suppose to even be apart of.

My opinion on love at first sight is I believe in it. I think it is real and not a myth or just something people believe in so they have courage. Once you meet someone you will know there is something or you wouldn’t want to be around them at all. It rarely happens because there are billions of people in this world but when it does happen to you it feels different, and no I am not talking about the cheesy message being sent to your boy/girlfriend saying “I’ve never had this feeling before” or “you’re the only person who has ever made me feel this way”. My great grandma and grandpa were love at first sight. They fell in love around the age 17 and stayed together until he passed away in 2007. Still to this day my grandma is still alive and hasn’t been with another man because she knows she couldn’t love someone as much as she did him. That is probably my favorite “Love At First Sight” story. That’s why I believe in “Love At First Sight”.